Facebook a top cause of relationship trouble, say US lawyers Social networking site becoming primary source of evidence in divorce proceedings and custody battles, lawyers say

In Uncategorized on November 24, 2015 at 12:55 am

Facebook a top cause of relationship trouble, say US lawyers

Social networking site becoming primary source of evidence in divorce proceedings and custody battles, lawyers say


When Facebook gets involved, relationships can quickly fall apart – as Hosni Mubarak and Muammar Gaddafi have discovered. But dictatorships are not the only ties being dissolved by social networking sites: now Facebook is increasingly being blamed for undermining American marriages.

Even though the rate of divorce in the US has remained largely stable in recent years, American divorce lawyers and academics have joined Middle East analysts in picking out Facebook as a leading cause of relationship trouble, with American lawyers now demanding to see their clients’ Facebook pages as a matter of course before the start of proceedings.

“We’re coming across it more and more. One spouse connects online with someone they knew from school. The person is emotionally available and they start communicating through Facebook,” said Dr Steven Kimmons, a clinical psychologist and marriage counsellor at Loyola University Medical Centre near Chicago.

Yet while the US media has been quick to trumpet any evidence of Facebook as the country’s leading marriage-wrecker, the truth is “It’s complicated,” as the site’s relationship status would have it.

A 2010 survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) found that four out of five lawyers reported an increasing number of divorce cases citing evidence derived from social networking sites in the past five years, with Facebook being the market leader.

Two-thirds of the lawyers surveyed said that Facebook was the “primary source” of evidence in divorce proceedings, while MySpace with 15% and Twitter with 5% lagged far behind.

Those statistics included not just evidence of infidelity but other legal battles, such as child custody cases in which parents deny using illicit drugs but boast of smoking marijuana on their Facebook pages.

Photographs harvested from social networking sites – including those posted by friends or colleagues on their own pages – are a particularly rich source of damning evidence, according to divorce lawyers.

“This sort of evidence has gone from nothing to a large percentage of my cases coming in,” Linda Lea Vicken, a member of the divorce lawyers’ group from South Dakota, told the Associated Press.

Marlene Eskind Moses, president of the AAML, said the openness and sharing of social networking sites left their users’ public and private lives more exposed.

“If you publicly post any contradictions to previously made statements and promises, an estranged spouse will certainly be one of the first people to notice and make use of that evidence,” said Moses.

Statistics for January from online analysts Nielsen showed 135 million people in the US visiting Facebook during the month – nearly 70% of the country’s internet users. On average, users spent more than seven hours a month visiting the site, far longer than the less than half an hour spent on visits to Amazon or the average of two hours and 15 minutes on Google, America’s most popular web destination.

The overall rate of divorce, however, appears to be unaffected by the advent of social networking. The most recent published data – from 2009 – shows the overall divorce rate declining, slightly more slowly than the shrinking percentage of Americans who get married every year.

A spokesperson for Facebook said: “It’s ridiculous to suggest that Facebook leads to divorce. Whether you’re breaking up or just getting together, Facebook is just a way to communicate, like letters, phone calls and emails. Facebook doesn’t cause divorces, people do.”

But given its popularity, it is little wonder that negotiating “Facebook divorce” status updates has become another unhappy event for failed romances, over when to launch the site’s broken-heart icon out into the glare of the world’s news feed.


Facebook expands ‘Safety Check’ after Paris attacks

In Uncategorized on November 24, 2015 at 12:38 am

Facebook expands ‘Safety Check’ after Paris attacks

Monday, 16 Nov 2015 | 11:46 AM ET

Facebook is changing the way it handles its “Safety Check” feature after terrorist attacks in Paris and Beirut.

The feature quickly became a useful tool for users of the social network to check on the safety of relatives and friends during the Paris attacks — which killed at least 129 people. But some users had expressed concerns over why Facebook decided not to use Safety Check during the terrorist attacks in Beirut, which killed 43 people, a day before the chaos in Paris.

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Facebook’s founder and CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, himself took to the social network to address the issue:

“Many people have rightfully asked why we turned on Safety Check for Paris but not for bombings in Beirut and other places,” Zuckerberg wrote in a Facebook post this weekend. “Until yesterday, our policy was only to activate Safety Check for natural disasters. We just changed this and now plan to activate Safety Check for more human disasters going forward as well.”

According to Facebook, 4.1 million people marked themselves safe in the first 24 hours after the Paris attacks and 360 million people were notified that their friends were safe.

Facebook launches Safety Check to help people notify each other that they are safe after a disaster.

Source: Facebook
Facebook launches Safety Check to help people notify each other that they are safe after a disaster.

In a blog post written Saturday, Facebook’s vice president of growth, Alex Schultz, said Safety Check is a work in progress.

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“We want this tool to be available whenever and wherever it can help,” Schultz said. “We will learn a lot from feedback on this launch, and we’ll also continue to explore how we can help people show support for the things they care about through their Facebook profiles, which we did in the case for Paris, too.”

During a Safety Check, Facebook sends a message to those it detects may be in a dangerous zone asking if they are safe. The users can then indicate on their profiles that they are out of danger.

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